Julie Beem
Posted in Attachment, Our Voices, Parenting Traumatized Children, Trauma, Treatment
The story
By now you may have read the headlines such as “YouTuber Myka Stauffer Reveals Adoption Dissolution 2 Years After Welcoming Son Home from China.” You may have even viewed the original adoptive parents’ tearful YouTube video about the “rehoming” of their son,
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Hilary Jacobs Hendel
Posted in Attachment, Our Voices, Recent Posts, Trauma
“Why do some children become sad, withdrawn, insecure, or angry, whereas others become happy, curious, affectionate, and self-confident?” developmental psychologist Edward Tronick, Ph.D. asked in a 1989 paper called “Emotions and Emotional Communication in Infants.” The answer lies in large part with the quality of emotional communication,
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Laura Dennis
Posted in Attachment, Book Reviews, Our Voices, Parenting Traumatized Children, Trauma
A story of hope
Last week, I wrote about Janyne McConnaughey’s story. This week I want to focus on my own. I could probably write a book of my own on the many insights I gained, but for the purposes of this post, in which I want to give hope to parents and kids alike,
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Hilary Jacobs Hendel
Posted in Attachment, Our Voices
Humans are wired for connection and thrive in conditions of safety and security. When safety and security are compromised, we must do everything we can to restore a child’s felt sense of safety and security as fast as possible.
Carol Monaco
Posted in Attachment, Our Voices, Trauma
During a session with your therapist, she hands you a paper with three concentric circles drawn on it. They represent relative levels of trust in relationships. The central circle is who you trust the most. She asks you who you would put in that spot. You don’t answer. She pushes. You remain silent. Finally, she suggests your parents. You nod. You know that she needs you to nod.
Carol Monaco
Posted in Attachment, Our Voices, Parenting Traumatized Children, Therapeutic Parenting, Trauma
A new season is upon us. The glow from the dawn of the new year is on the wane. For some of us, it is in the company of the resolutions to which we swore our allegiance before we climbed into bed at 9:30 on December 31 – satisfied that 2019 would arrive whether or not we were there to meet it.
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Guest Author
Posted in Attachment, Our Voices, Parenting Traumatized Children, Therapeutic Parenting
For years, I felt frustrated by parents and therapists suggesting I just read fill-in-the-blank adoption books by fill-in-the-blank authors. I’d already read all of those parenting books. I’d highlighted them and made notes in the margins.
But the well-worn copies on my bookshelf didn’t seem to help. Sometimes the most worthy book suggestions even seemed to hurt our family.
Janyne McConnaughey, PhD
Posted in ATN News, Attachment, Education, Events, Our Voices, Trauma, Trauma Sensitive Schools
[N]ext week, I will speak for the second time at the Creating Trauma Sensitive Schools Conference, where my topic will be “Behavior through the Lens of Attachment, Trauma, and Dissociation.”
Guest Author
Posted in Attachment, Our Voices, Parenting Traumatized Children, Trauma
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Laura Dennis
Posted in Attachment, Our Voices, Parenting Traumatized Children, Therapies, Trauma
Winter break always gets me to thinking, and this time it has me pondering the implications of raising a child diagnosed with RAD. I don’t know if all the things I have done to help my child will bear long-term fruit for him, but I am increasingly aware of just how much they have done for me.
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